Sex after children.

Before I begin, I would like to say that no matter what the after effects, my son was worth having 210%.

Now that that is out of the way....I have to say that I do not feel as sexy as before. It is probably because I still don't have my beauty routine down pact. I know that sex appeal is a mental thing but pampering sure does help. I only recently got a pedicure and I managed to squeeze in a haircut the other day. I still don't fit into my nighties like I used to.
When I do have the the energy to initiate sex, the inevitable happens, the baby begins to cry. If he initiates, its usually late night after coming home form the club he works at, about the time I just got into bed after a late night feeding with the baby. Our timing is off to say the least.
Another issue is my aches and pains. I have a lot of them now after the baby. My hip joints especially hurt. I remember one time I tried to get on top and my legs started shaking like an old lady's. It wasn't pretty. He busted out laughing which killed the mood.
It's just different now, really different. Like Stella, I'm trying to get my groove back. All my girlfriends say it will take a while. I hope so. I want to feel sexy again.
See ya.